Today

My dad told me I was beautiful.

Not because I was having a bad day or was fishing for a compliment or was dressed extra special. He was just looking through some pictures we just had developed and said it simply and spontaneously.

(When I looked at the picture earlier, I just saw big pores and coffee-stained teeth. And my own gorgeous daughter.)

I had to look away for a while because of the tears in my eyes; I couldn't even choke out a thank-you. It just felt so good to hear my father say that.

Wouldn't it be good--wouldn't it be revolutionary--if every father could say that to his daughter once in a while?

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Mom

Anonymous said...

-sniff-
Mom

Sandra said...

It would be revolutionary! I remember my dad telling me I was beautiful on one occasion, my wedding day.

Missi said...

aw, that is really sweet. I love your dad. I miss my dad.

jovial_cynic said...

I tell my daughters that they're beautiful and amazing every day. That's one of my commitments to them. I also take them out on hot-chocolate or ice cream dates periodically. :)

aola said...

yes, yes, yes it would be

not even my mom ever told me that... she would say "you're not hard to look at" but she never once in my life told me I was pretty much less beautiful and my dad barely spoke to me.

I have made my boys quiet conceited by telling them how gorgeous they are on a daily basis and when I tell Emily she is beautiful she just looks at me, scrunches up her face and says Yes, I am.

AND.. what a lovely thing for your Dad to do

Cara said...

That's awesome! What a wonderful Dad.